My husband and I were celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary. That evening he took me to an elegant restaurant with crystal chandeliers, soft jazz, and candlelight. We were enjoying the evening when two couples sat down at the table next to us — the women in sparkling diamonds and designer dresses, the men in suits with expensive watches gleaming under the light. They laughed loudly, talking as if they owned the place. Half the restaurant could probably hear them. Then one of the men, waving h